Rude Finder Review Scam RudeFinder.com
Update! So far from what I have gathered from around the web and the comments/reviews left here Rude Finder is not very legit. I was reading up on a few forums I am a part of and talking with some friends and they have been teeling me really great things about True.com It was free to check [...]
Rude Finder Review Scam RudeFinder.com
(8 votes, average: 2.13 out of 5)
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June 24th, 2011 at 11:31 pm
Rudefinder.com. Needless to say certain things began to register on my “this isn’t rite”meter fairly quick.The first thing that caught my attention was the fact that being from a very small town I recognized not one person and the fact that we have a very very small African American population yet there were quite the few on this site.Next came the curious little detail of never having a profile view until after I viewed that particular persons profile
June 25th, 2011 at 3:33 am
I have pretty much the same experience as the other reviewer with the number of woman that are suppose to be from “your area” which is not true.When a search is done all of the results show everyone to be logged on all day long, no matter what time of day or night you check.A few more flags go up as you stay on the site such as getting a message or wink from someone and you immediately send a response the person will not answer for exactly 24hrs even though it shows them logged onto the site.When you ask a question the response does not answer the question that was asked and they all end with the exact same sentence, “But first I would like to get to know you better” even though in the profile they write that they’re hot & horny and looking to hookup now. Everything points to this being a scam, it looks like alot of the profiles may have been taken from other sites and responses from the women appear to be computer generated.
June 26th, 2011 at 12:41 pm
I’ve beeen hearing the same thing. If u’ve uesd PoF and OK with no luck try True
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June 26th, 2011 at 1:19 pm
seriously rudefinder is crap. every profile i see i think is fake just to get people to signup. ill check out true. cant hurt not like it can be worse than rudefinder! hahahaha
June 27th, 2011 at 11:54 am
i am a sexy cheerleader and every guy at my school loves me
June 27th, 2011 at 3:35 pm
Every thing these guys are saying is true and much more the site rude finder is even filled with scammers giving you the hard luck story from over seas mainly nigeria and how their stuck their and i even complained to administration but it will not allow you to keeps saying error its an absolute scam nothing short of stealing peoples money and giving them hopes i cant believe its allowed to operate it should be shut down and the owner face the full extent of the law.Rude finder is not even close to legit their are that many fake female profiles it isnt funny i dont think any of them are real its all the same from every girl how can they think we are that stupid but hey they must (ps) from very pissed of customer.
June 27th, 2011 at 3:41 pm
Dude I totally think the same thing about rude finder. Its a freakin scam. I signed up thinking there were more women in my area and they were all fake. this is bullshit. the site should be taken down for scamming. dont use them
June 27th, 2011 at 5:38 pm
ive even gone as far as asking for a full refund but administration keeps ignoring me not good when you signed up for 12 months and havnt even been on here a month its an absolute load of crap sum of them even have a few acounts if you look hard enough lol i did and even saying that they lived in different locations with copletely different profiles i dont believe how they can get away with it so again rude finder is nothing more than a scam an absolute joke
June 30th, 2011 at 6:08 pm
I think you guys are right about Rude.I asked one of the girls if she was ready for a local event that coming up and she didnt know what I was talking about and didnt really answer me..
June 30th, 2011 at 11:15 pm
Thanks I joined for free and was about to pay to message a girl some of the pictures did look fake I’m gonna delete my profile I’ve had no luck on P.O.F ill try true. Com
July 1st, 2011 at 3:43 pm
this site is a big fake the small town i live in there is not that many unatached good looking young girls they also give profiles for a small farm town down the road and all the girls are the same age funny how there are no unatractive girls on the site and they never return your messagea after the second one
July 1st, 2011 at 10:12 pm
I agree here with you guys, I have been on rudefinder a lot checking out the site and receiving a lot of winks and msgs, however when I reply I never receive a response until the next day and the funny thing here is I can see a green dot which indicates they are on line, what a lot of bullshit this site is, I’m sooooo disappointed in myself for falling for the same old trap. I have been on so many of these so call scams only to fall for the same old trap.
The only way I believe us guys are to have any contact with a woman is the old fashion way at our local club etc……
July 1st, 2011 at 10:17 pm
Oh by the way guys, Just for the record, When I closed down my site, pictures etc, I was still receiving winks and msgs, so you tell me! why would a woman be interested in a guy when they can’t see what I look like! what a joke!
July 2nd, 2011 at 8:12 am
rudefinder is defiately a scam ,joined up with a full three month membership.found many women in my town on here even though its avery small town and noone looked familiar most profiles say im horny want nsa hookups now but after chatting with evry single woman in my area for months “and getting to know them”not a single one was willing to actually go out on a date or even talk on the phone a perfectly ligtimate form of communication.several told me they were ready to hook up but then completely quit returning my messages.sometimes it says the same women are local then all of a sudden they are in the uk.total scam should be illigal .just takeing peoples money month after month.several of the girls wanted to chat on yahoo im ,but when yiu do that they are either cam girls and want your credit card to verify age ,but if you do that your card gets compromised and you have to get new cards.srveral others after getting to know them and go to yahoo im turn out to be from nigeria or ghanna give you some sob story about sick mom grandma stuck in a hotel because of bills etc.and only want you to send money.been on there several months,made many complaints and inquireies to the staff at rude only to be given the run around and told to be patient.i dont believe any of the women on here are real only computer generated trash.what a waste of money .the company should be sued and evry one given there money back.i also have had the same experience with amature match total scam ,all the women i chatted with there ’supposedly local ‘went round and round getting to know them for six months when it came apparent that they would have to get or quit they all just dissappeared,no that im no longer a paying member there the same women are all writeing me back saying lets hook up now.total scam.wish there was some recourse
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July 2nd, 2011 at 9:09 pm
Have anyone notice that the profiles for each of the women have major grammar issues. Its as if they are from some super poor and non educated place.
July 2nd, 2011 at 10:11 pm
I feel like a fool. I have been taken in by these scammers. I asked rudefinder to stop charging me and received a letter promising that my membership would be discontinued and then I get charged today for another month. Now it looks like I have to stop my credit card. All the women seemed to live in a non existent town where every woman under 30 is a super slut. A utopian sex paradise. They all seemed to be sucking the same guys cock in a lot of the pictures. I have to stop thinking with my other head.
July 5th, 2011 at 5:40 am
They are criminals and nothing more! Just open two different profiles from different states or Provinces and you will find the same sluts in both cities. STAY AWAY!!!
July 5th, 2011 at 12:25 pm
Have you reported them to the FEDs? Or even to your local federal or state politician? How about larger organizations/ I think that many are camwhores out to make money. Worse did you read the terms ??
July 5th, 2011 at 12:28 pm
“Upon subscription/application to the said site (JDI Dating) you fully and totally understand and acknowledge that, this dating service has been built solely for the amusement of the subscribers. More so, all profiles are specifically presented to entertain our users. All users are no way guaranteed to find a companion, partner or even meet any of our members.”
Did not read that did you?
July 5th, 2011 at 12:42 pm
I agree with all of the above. I’ve been on this site for less than a month and regretfully I paid for the full 12 months. I have already cancelled my subscription to the site and I really hope people read these posts before paying money to these crooks. I wish I could get my money back! Don’t fall for it like some of us did.
July 5th, 2011 at 12:43 pm
And Scott… I did not read that! Now I really feel like a jackass.
July 5th, 2011 at 8:17 pm
I saw all this crap last night. I just joined and paid a year worth, seemed like the better deal. Now, I tell one girl to go fuck herself because she wanted me to join some other website and give my credit card number so they could verify age. Long story short, I told her no way, in different words, and now I can’t even get back on the site. “the server is down”, although I can go anywhere else on the internet right now. TOTAL CROCK OF SHIT, DO NOT JOIN THIS SITE!!
July 5th, 2011 at 10:01 pm
Chris did you receive confirmation that they cancelled your account??? i have sent 4 cancellation requests and have not seen or heard anything
July 5th, 2011 at 10:48 pm
Hay I thank all you guys for your comments,for your honesty. I was about to sign up as well. listen guys and ladies. the only place your going to find a really good time is at your local gay and strait bars. I know some of you may be strait,but I myself have met some really good people at these bars. I’ve met couples,swingers,groups who like to do all of the above when it comes to sex. The good thing about it is most of these people you find at these bars are very respectful about your needs. I know I’m bi-sexual and tell you no lie. I enjoy these clubs. I like the people there and they are very open to you. I say this because most these websites are full of SHIT,anytime they ask for your credit card,more then likely you’ll loose out. Your messages are controled by someone controling the computer.ALSO! In the terms and conditions,it states: for you not to give out your personal email address. Why would you not want to do that,don’t you want to hook up as soon as possible and find what your looking for and rid this rudefinder bullshit. I’m telling you,you will find more action at your local gay and strait bar. Oh by the way for all you women that are chubby in size,yall seem to have more to suck on,had me a nice chubby white woman the other day. I almost drowned in her juices,she saved my life as well. Her husband couldn’t believe how much she came all over my face,but it was dam good. thanks for the advise and good luck. faithful898@gmail.com
July 7th, 2011 at 2:32 am
Hi all,
I’m from the UK and too have realised that this website is rubbish, however have now found a way o enjoying the website. I simply call it fake and duplicate account spotting, it’s dead easy to do and when accounts are found that are either duplicate or cam girls or African beggars I then report the account giving the reason.
Whether or not it actually does anything, I don’t know and I’m not too bothered really, but figured it’s amusing me and at the very least probably quite irritating for the admins to keep receiving report account emails!! On top of that I have had several mails back from the the admins agreeing that accounts are suspect and that they have been deleted so something does happen.
I recommend it as a pastime if you have a spare 10 minutes, as you will enjoy perusing nice photos, and also know that you are either getting accounts closed down or annoying the website admins, either of which is justifiable given the website dubious operational mandate!!
If anyone ones any guidelines on how to spot the fake accounts, let me know and will gladly assist you in sticking two fingers up at both the scammers and the website!!
July 7th, 2011 at 3:25 am
Rudefinder is nothing but scam. British girls cheeky this and that. Fake profiles and ppl trying to lure you to their yahoo messenger. Lets take these guys down, they are stealing our money.
July 7th, 2011 at 9:26 am
There are several things that raised flags so I deleted my profile before handing them any money or credit card info.
1) The words used seem to indicate they’re British. Or at least the people who run the site are. I never chatted with anybody.
2) I don’t think they ever asked for a state. Which also means it’s probably not based in the US.
3) The girls are way too good looking for any average sampling on a dating site.
4) Most profiles contain nude profile pics. How many women are willing to post those types of pictures so freely? On some sites, yes, but it seems way too prevalent. And most sites’ll probably make you pay extra to see that content.
5) The search engine is crap. It kept coming up with people from cities about 1000 miles away. It only identified women by city, not state.
6) I believe the cities these women lived in were being generated randomly. I live near a huge metroplex and there were almost no profiles from this HUGE city right next door. On the other hand, there were sometimes 3-4 women from these tiny little suburb towns. How likely is that?
7) Most of the women have no requirements whatsoever as far as a man except his age. And many of them have age WIDE open. A 22 year old looking for guys 20 to 70? Really? Maybe that happens once, but several of them? And no other tastes in men? Smoking habits, religion, etc.?
9) As soon as I signed in and had some basic info, I started getting messages from beautiful girls. Before I even had a picture up. Given my age, I don’t think any real woman 20 years my junior is just going to jump to contact me so quickly especially without a photo. Especially a beautiful girl in her early 20’s who’s probably got plenty of options in her age range, both online and in real life.
10) During the day, I never seemed to get responses. It’s probably after hours wherever they really are. But I log in late at night and all of a sudden, a bunch of views, emails, messages? A little too convenient.
11) As I was about to delete my account, they offered a lifetime, one-time membership for $30. That was too good to be true. It means several things to me. It means there really is no content for sale. And it means they’re probably just after my credit card. And then who knows what’ll happen to that info? Paypal didn’t seem to be a choice for payment as one poster described.
Luckily I didn’t spend any money or hand over credit card info. Look at regular dating sites. If it seems too good, step back and start searching for other people’s experiences.
July 10th, 2011 at 2:17 pm
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July 10th, 2011 at 4:47 pm
Rude Finder is a scam.
July 10th, 2011 at 5:13 pm
I live in a large college town so the amount of attractive women on the site was not to surprising there are a couple that are not that attractive not what i am looking for but made me think it was legit even though most were online all the time. Went through pages of profiles many talked with a british tone talking about their mates still not to surprising being a large college town. Looked a bit more there were at least 2 profiles with pics that were shot in the same house same couch same painting in the background and there were another 2 profiles that i am sure it was the same ass in the pictures. I sent a message to 1 girl that sent to messages to me within a minute seemed like it popped up that she viewed my profile right after I viewed hers several times finally figured out what to say sent a message said account was deleted yet it is still there later it in the conversation log it said it was sent.
Another thing i noticed some of their distances away things are off
well i guess that is enough rambling from another duped moron that paid for the year maybe there is still time to put a stop payment from my bank account
July 10th, 2011 at 5:46 pm
tried sending another message
Profile Does Not Exist
The profile you are trying to access has been removed from the site.
wish i remembered what porn site i found the link to rudefinder on to get them to remove the ads
July 12th, 2011 at 2:02 am
Guys, after a very lengthy game f email tennis with JDI (RudeFinder Parent company) i managed to get my subscription cancelled. the Site is a complete SCAM, there is no question about it. I also come from a very small town in the UK and we have a very small non-local community (i hope thats PC enough sorry if i cause offense, but you know what im saying) there are apparently lots of latino, African and asin ladies in my town desperate to meet me! well certainly the number of african ladies in my town amount to 5 and i know all of them, and they are not desperate to meet anyone! anyway, looking further into this, many of the profiles will supply hidden “yahoo” addresses, these will allow you to communicate with these ladies vai instant messenger. Now, as you can imagine, this is for unsolicited cam2cam “fun”, but it got me thinking, these girls are desperate for cash, so what would they tell you for a few £$’s and i set about communicating with a few, and surprise surprise, thier billing is collected by JDI, the very company that just scammed you into a membership to RudeFinder! 100% SCAM. so if your looking, a few things to think about…are any single sexy ladies ever going to use a service like rude finder? no, girls in general dont really have the meeting or sexual difficaulties guys do, honestly. also, is every lady on a site like rude finder going to be stunning? no. I think the best thing we can do is to try to get this joke of a site closed down by IANA, it can be done, but requires a team effort, and then maybe we should resort to the old fashioned way, go to a bar, see a “real” person and say hi, then see how it goes from their….none of these types of site are legit. Sorry to all those that lost thier money, lets do something about it
July 17th, 2011 at 11:15 am
yes been on it for a day i tried ending my accont then it came up lifetime membership for $29.99 so I lost out on $30 more or less hoping to get a refund but doubt
July 21st, 2011 at 9:52 pm
It is a complete waste of $. took it as a challenge to find out more and have enough to have them closed down. What u have is 80% fake and 20% real suckers if ur looking for a woman. The same women, same photos, same names, same profiles etc in each country. to those who report profiles it doesnt matter. All that the site does is block u from seeing them, theyre still on the site but blocked from u. A easy way to spot a scammer/fake is ask a specific ? eg a local ? like (if ur in aust and its summer, “how was the snow today” or even just ask whats their fav beach, night club etc. If u ask arange of ?s and not one of them answered u can guarantee they are nowhere near you
July 24th, 2011 at 6:40 pm
this site has full of scammers. if you dont believe me i was rob $430.00 to someone i thought was in love. she was in senegal i called her and everything and discover she was never real. i was so stupid to so that but i am new to this. am only 19 years old but i learn my lesson the hard way. there is alot of beggers claiming they are in camps and they need this amount of money to get out of there situations. trust me it’s nigerian scammers and for the ladies in this website all of them are average and above average on the looks. i was chatting with one of the females and i said lets meet in a place and they disappear. i want my money back but they refuse to give me my money back. i made one of the biggest mistakes in my life.
July 24th, 2011 at 6:46 pm
this website is nothing but females who are not real! i met a female who i thought i was in love with. she was from Dakar Senegal she is beautiful and she told me to help her out of her situation so she can join me. folks you wont beileve what happen to me.I lost $500 to someone who claim that they were the female i was talking to. i talk to this female on the phone but wouldn’t want to chat for long. everybody i mean the real people who wanna come to this site dont step your foot in it. it is fill with nigerian scammers and all of them ladies are fake. am 19 and i learn my lesson the hard way. this site belongs to scammer dont be a victim.
August 8th, 2011 at 10:30 am
This site is a total scam. Completely fake profiles and nothing but a total scam.
August 8th, 2011 at 9:23 pm
This site is run by a bot…and a not very well programmed one….every time you look at a profile, the profile will look back at you regularly…far too coincidental.
August 10th, 2011 at 1:10 pm
This company is also operating under the name Just Hook Up and is totally fraudulent. The profiles are fake. You cannot cabcel a membership. You must have your credit card changed if there is a recurring change.
August 13th, 2011 at 5:03 pm
men did i get scammed rude finder is bull should of notice sooner with all those red flags but do you think my credit card is at risk pls send responce asap
August 14th, 2011 at 2:41 pm
Hi guys. I created a basic account and every day I logged on I was treated to an even bigger discount to take out ‘full’ membership. I was getting suspicious so I did a quick net search and found all you pissed off guys here. I think this and many other sites are scams and the best one can do to make their life miserable is for all of us to create multiple fake accounts to keep someone busy the other side. At least don’t delete your basic account, just log in every few days for a few minutes. Hopefully they will spend more and more time sending messages and make less and less in the process. More important even is your feedback on places like this so others can check them out before handing over hard earned cash. Thank you all for reporting them and saving me 45 quid (I’m in England and like some of you have already noticed, the places that girls messaging me are from are not always so well thought out – another clue to the nature of the site).
August 15th, 2011 at 5:51 pm
crock of shit….sent in a chargeback request and cancelled my card,,would advise the same for anyone else taken in by these assholes
August 16th, 2011 at 5:27 pm
In the past I have written to express my doubts about your site. Now I have exclusive proof RudeFinder.com is a scam and I am requesting a full and immediate refund.
You’ll note the first six lines in both of these responses are exactly the same. Word for word. You will also note the overall content of both responses is the same. These are more then likely computer generated response and your attempts of making matches at the expense of ones emotions and feelings is repugnant
14th Aug********** :05 am
marcelinemozer says:
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Aug********* :48 am
red_jemz****** says:
What new sexy? I saw your profile and I have to say that I was impressed! You seem like a fun and interesting guy. I hope that we can get to know each other and see where the relationship takes us. I am up for anything and willing to try everything. I was thinking that we could get together one night soon and just hang out. I could make dinner and we could have a few glasses of wine and just talk! You can hit me at youngdame122 that’s at hot ********** let me know if this sounds good to you! I really hope to hear from you!! XOXO***********
August 18th, 2011 at 5:28 am
I signed up for justhookup.com a sistersite to rudefinder. It’s the same scam. All the profiles are bots. They instantly check your page the second you check theirs and send winks and likes when you check back. It’s a waste of money. Stay away
August 18th, 2011 at 7:08 am
Like ACE, I decided to give these guys a try – justhookup.com is the same as rudefinder, you can log into either with either membership. Most profiles are generic, and there’s no way 2 or 3 hot 20 somethings are sending this 47 year old guy messages and pics like that. It seemed to be too good to be true…
Girls always on-line, same pattern of looking at your profile, canned responses, etc.
August 19th, 2011 at 11:30 am
must agree with all birds had different locations twice maybe three times a week oneform hurst green in lancashire suddenly turned up in west derby and another one had three different addresses in three days RIP OFF
August 20th, 2011 at 11:55 am
Scam. I help out on membership because i thought it was a scam then one girl sent a message that was legit so i paid 17 bucks for a month. I report every fake and get same email message. I examined each photo and found similarities and the fact im an architect building design doesnt match code. Complete scam. only way to meet a real chick is on the street or in a bar or by a friend. I since filed a reg e claim to get my 17 bucks back. goodluck and dont wast your time.
August 22nd, 2011 at 12:48 pm
Yeah total fucking scam all the girls say the same thing , ” how was your week ? And you message them back and they take 24-hours to answer or they say something totally unrelated to what you said . I just want to know if they can still draw money from my credit card or should I cancel it ? Thanks for any info .
August 22nd, 2011 at 8:41 pm
this site really is shitm someone needs to take it down, they have till tommorow to issue me a refund, or i will get my bank involved, i dont think that they want to mess with a military federal credit union,
August 23rd, 2011 at 2:22 pm
just as a consolation tell them you will involve you credit card company and they will issue a refund, they did for me, maybe because they don’t want to be investigated.
August 23rd, 2011 at 10:53 pm
I like most of you was suckerd in is there a real site where an adult can find some real adult fun?
unfortunatly there are alot of sites like this one in constantly getting emails from sites iv checked out but never filled out a profile and seem to keep getting messages from the same people on rude finder thanks for all the info on getting my money back
August 24th, 2011 at 4:26 pm
what is it you do for a refund? It is apparent that the site is not real.
August 26th, 2011 at 12:34 am
All you have to do is have a nosey around the dite before joining to realise it is a lot of fake women on there.
as soon as you join as a free member you get an e-mail offering 70% discount, then about a week later you get another e-mail offering 50% discount and then if you go to deactivate my account they offer you 90% which works out as a one off payment of £20….. they are obviously desperate for your money
BUT
if you do pay a one off payment of £20 and you manage to hook up with 2 or 3 women from your local area (WHICH I HAVE DONE IN NOTTINGHAM NGLAND) then it is worth it
ALWAYS REMEBER IF YOU ARE FROM A BIG TOWN THEN THERE WILL BE SOME REAL PROFILES ON THERE
ive met up with a few local women and will continue to BUT JUST BE CAREFUL AND VIGILANT WHO YOU TALK TO !!!!!
August 27th, 2011 at 2:09 pm
I totally agree with all of the comments. FAKE,FAKE, FAKE! Especiall 1 guy. I spend a lotta time looking 4 duplicate profiles and reporting them just like he does. That way i figure they’ll lose some of that money they’ve f”d some ppl out of.There’s a small town close 2 mine that’s home 2 only black ppl. They have no White residents. yet, all u c is a bunch of sexy caucasian, oriental ladies. PLEASE, don’t b a fool and give those mofos ur hard earned money
August 30th, 2011 at 6:58 pm
Rudefinder is fake as many have pointed out. I’ve even received messages from individuals, responded a few minutes later and they never respond and they are on-line all day. Also – if you look at the pics, almost all look very professional (model like). Most are not model like…
August 31st, 2011 at 1:26 pm
As with many of the users above, I found rudefinder too good to be true. It is well set up for scamming, beautiful women, many good nude shots.
But many redirect in emails to contact them at different hotmail addresses. That was the first tip off. Then, many will write, but not respond back. Many first inquiries were “how is your week going”–too many, especially when you get one on a Sunday night.
There is some automation built in, to wink or view if you view a profile. And as others said, some of these woman seem to be on the site 24/7, even the very hot ones on Friday or Saturday nights. Not realistic.
Don’t waste your money. I took a one month subscription and just demanded it back. If they actually refund, I’ll post to let users here know.
September 2nd, 2011 at 3:41 pm
this is a scam…. the several above say it all… not a real one in the bunch of nudes…
September 6th, 2011 at 1:21 pm
I posted at #56 above. A few days after posting i demanded a refund and got it very quickly. I said that if I did not get a refund I would spend as much time posting negatively as I wasted chasing false leads, and that they were criminals who needed to get real lives instead of ripping off people. Had a refund email in a couple of hours and the funds went straight back to my account. That said, they are a rip off and it is catching up with them.
September 9th, 2011 at 7:46 am
If only the terrorists would have gotten hold of one of the owners of a scam website and sawed his head off with a hacksaw… I bet the terrorists would then have much better results the next time they have one of their membership drives.
Better yet, maybe we should go back to having public executions. Like during the halftime show of the Super Bowl… instead of dragging out some tired old school band, it would be really refreshing to watch a dozen or so executions of the owners of scam dating sites. They could be made to draw cards to determine which death they would face, such as fed to sharks, burned at the steak, drawn and quartered, dropped from an airplane.
Even better they could calculate the distance that would result if all the people they scammed we lined up and then make them jump that distance in a motorcycle and if they make it they would be set free. I bet they would never try to scam anybody ever again after that type of justice was adminestered to them.
If laws were passed declaring that these individuals were not human, then it would be legal to hunt them down. Let the games begin
September 15th, 2011 at 6:44 am
ha knew it was a scam and every girl was a fake well not completely so did not spend a dime, from what im hearing I wouldnt eaither so any girl looking for a review let me know oh for everyone else get some results like this one guy who got a refund or like that one dude that said his bank was a military federal credit union WTF.
September 20th, 2011 at 4:56 pm
go to
xx
my account tab,
payment history,
there is an PDF file on the end of the last payment tab,
open the PDF file, then,
at the bottom of the file, there is a choice says if you want to cancel your account click here,
click there, it will open in a new tab browser,
choose one of choices why you leaving,
then click confirm
September 23rd, 2011 at 11:37 am
Great just wasted 8 weeks of my life.wished I’d known about review site before I was mugged.some of them seemed genuine but am new to online dating and I was sucked in.
September 24th, 2011 at 7:20 am
i thought it was to good to be true…with all the advertisement and links, and models…i find a lot of these sites in the past have fake profiles…or a lot of…Adultfriendfinder i propose is one…plenty of fish…bullshit…so many scammers out there also use porn sites to get your credit card details…and personal information for identity theft…the funny thing is…how can we be sure of a lot of these sites?
I am very reluctant to give credit details over the net since i had my credit account drained…fuck knows by who…lucky the bank covered it…so the moral of the story is to change our credit card regularly and also your pin, as people make copies of your card even from stolen eftpos machines…
Those that have been scammed on rude.com are just human falling prey to the hyeenas of modern societal technologies…
just don’t go for the nigerian oil companies and the russian brides…lol :0
September 24th, 2011 at 7:51 am
funny how just hook up and rudefinder have similar profiles on the front page, and the exact people online and members…i think they have better go back to the drawing board to trick those that are more willing to check details…
however like adultfriendfinder and other dating sites where you have to pay, there are some female members on them, but not many…rsvp is legit, and oasis, but a lot with fake profiles….what made me automatically suspicious of rude.com is that you get automatic winks and messages from girls that look amazing…i wonder how there are so many sluts in my area…lol
September 25th, 2011 at 4:21 am
Here is my experience with Rudefinder which contains info not mentioned in any of the above posts.
I signed up to RF after finding several great looking girls close to my vicinity. However I took the precaution of only signing up for a month as it looked to good to be true.
Sure enough I had the same experience as everyone else here – loads of emails, favourites, winks etc, from mostly young girls, in an age range below that which I’d requested. I then noticed one girl with two separate profiles – different ages, locations etc. Then noticed three different girls who’d photographed themselves in the same bathroom. Smelling a rat I contacted their customer services who very quickly thanked me for ’spotting a scam’
This was barely 48 hours after I’d signed up. I notified them of the same bathroom shots, and they then came back informing me that the site ran what they call ‘Virtual Cupids’ (VCs), fake profiles designed to maximise activity on the site, and that these were clearly mentioned under the T&Cs.
Now these VCs are identified by a tiny angel logo on each profile. So I spent another half hour or so trying to find real profiles near me, and sure enough there were none, although the search engine was somewhat erratic.
I complained that while I understood the VC concept, in practice they got in the way of the search process and made the site unusable, and that I couldn’t find any real profiles. Finally I asked to be cancelled, which they explained was easy to do via the site, although they said my profile would be kept live for the duration of the month.
When I asked for a full refund, they argued that I’d signed up to the T&Cs, but I replied that BEFORE I’d done that they were clearly passing off fake profiles as real to entice would be users, and that was illegal. With very little opposition they agreed to a full refund within 5-7 days. I have two emails confirming the refund as agreed and on my payment history on the site, it now says ‘refund’.
I’ve told my bank and I will be monitoring my card for the next week, and will report them as a scam if I don’t get the refund, and will leave my bank’s disputes team to deal with it.
I’m not entirely sure if they are scammers per se as there are genuine profiles up there and the VC ‘facility’ seems a clever get out for them if you don’t spot it quickly. The customer service end does ’seem’ efficient, but may be part of the whole scam. I simply argued with them that despite the T&Cs, the site is unusable in all practical sense due to the huge number of VCs and as such is not fit for purpose for someone like me. They refunded immediately after that. We shall see if they are as good as their word.
All in all, avoid.
September 27th, 2011 at 12:17 pm
Well guys I wish I would have read this before I joined. That site completely sucks ass. I have the same experience all the rest of you have had. No response then some, then let’s get to know each other before we meet on the site, form a woman that posts just want to fuck. Really. The same goes for benaughty.com stay away.
September 27th, 2011 at 1:21 pm
The lengths rude finder will go to keep you hooked!
Sent messages asking for proof that the profiles were real and managed a veiw.some 4 days later I recive a message from a profile displaying the Cupid symbol that supposedly shows the fakes,every photo profile seems to also carry Cupid symbol.the message reads:
Hey babe,of course I’m real.what are you interested in? Are you looking for a princess on here? Tell me more about your demands…. this comes after they agree supposedly to refund me.a demanding e-mail stating the morality and possibly the legality of there scam.
STAY AWAY!
September 27th, 2011 at 3:41 pm
Why is rudefinder still allowed to be on the net.All the profiles are fake and it is false advertising,can’t anyone close them down?
October 2nd, 2011 at 7:02 am
i have never got a response from any girl on this site but they seem to be online all the time , even the ones that say they have little time because of their full time job . Most speak with british tones (i.e) mates , just closed my profile they feed off of guys that are lonely and want some kind of realtionship in their life.
October 10th, 2011 at 6:29 pm
Yes, I to was sucked in by there bait and switch technique, and yes I bought a live time membership. I started to investigate all these really young ladies winking at me, liking my photo’s and putting me in their favorite list. Now I’m 51yrs old and why would young ladies of 18-30 show any interest in me. So I started doing a google search of photos that were posted. ALL ARE FAKE. I emailed them to complain about the fakes (also had 2 scammes from Ghana that I reported their profiles are still active), and they emailed me back with a very interesting letter of admitting to setting up FAKE profiles to entice. I have saved the letter, but will post it here if I can.
October 10th, 2011 at 6:37 pm
Sorry about some of the mis-spelled word above. But here is the email. RUDE FINDER sent me;
Hi *******,
Thank you for your Email.
The profiles you are referring to are our Virtual Cupid Profiles (VC), the sole function of these profiles is to increase members activity and enjoyment of our website.
These can be identified by a logo on the user’s profile. For further information on VC profiles please refer to our terms and conditions.
The majority of our customers build up great relationships on the site and we endeavour to ensure that all customers have the same experience.
However, we do have many thousand of real members other then VC and I would advise you to use the new search tab in order to locate them.
Please contact us if you have any further queries.
Kind Regards,
Darren Kenton
Customer Service Representative
Date Support Team
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Learn the art of attracting the opposite sex – as seen on Dr Phil – http://date-support.com/special-offers
__________________________________________________________________
Help us improve our customer service by completing the following survey: http://www.surveymonkey.com/s/dateconnected
Ticket Details
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Ticket ID: XYF-445-84812
Department: Site Problems
Type: Issue
Status:Closed
Priority:Normal
Support Center: http://www.date-support.com/index.php?
October 10th, 2011 at 6:44 pm
In their E mail they talk about a logo, I’ve seen no logo, No differance from real profiles and fake ones. Oh by the way I did delete all my pictures, and upload one of Tom Cruise for my “fake Profile” they rejected it. Go figure.
October 11th, 2011 at 2:31 pm
Ok now I have found the logo, it on EVERY one of the girls that had wink at me, put me as a favorite, and even emailed me, All but two and they were both from Ghana and tried to scam me. Wow do I feel like a total idiot, thank you rude finder, your name suits you fine.
October 12th, 2011 at 10:35 am
Well test before you pay
They did not catch me because I have done my home work and send some mails to friends of mine
October 17th, 2011 at 6:07 am
This site is a complete scam and the owner should be in jail. After joining I started getting automated e-mails pretending to be real users who want to talk to me but I have to pay before reading these automated generic e-mails from users who don’t exist.
What really pissed me of though is the fact that they created a fake profile using my stolen pictures. After complaining and threatening them, they removed my real profile. A fake profile with my pictures is still there!
Complete Scam
October 22nd, 2011 at 8:18 am
It soon occured to me that all the women were sucking the same dick, what a scam!
October 23rd, 2011 at 7:11 pm
I to have noticed that rude finder was a scam.
I live in a small town and i recieved messages from profiles from african americans that claim to be nearby in other towns even smaller than what i lived in.
So i googled to checked what the african amercan
population of this town was.
Come to fide out rude finder had more african american people from this town than the cecsus bureau had listed for this town
If your looking for a ligitament website go to ashley madison .com stay away from rude finder
November 3rd, 2011 at 5:23 pm
I am several days into a lifetime membership, but is is apparent already that most if not all local postings are FAKE. For example, I was for a atart pleasantly surprprised how many local women advertised until it quickly became apparentthat the number of women did not equate to number of women in local villages. (nor appearance going by site pics) TOTAL AND UTTER SCAM! DO NOT JOIN!
November 10th, 2011 at 9:44 pm
The site is a scam. The profiles are fake. They say so right in the fine print on their site. They count on the fact that we don’t read the fine print first. The following is directly from their terms and conditions on their site.
The said site (JDI Dating Ltd) encourages and promotes and use of communications through our Virtual Cupid (VC). This service has been employed to encourage communications with members throughout our site and services. All members fully understand, accept and agree to the deployment of this service, which some of the profiles and members displayed to them may be fabricated to promote user activity and partaking in all the said sites services. The VC includes the posting of information, pictures and communication to the users’ profile. More as the deployment of our VC is to excite member’s activity, it’s a fundamental means to mediate users’ conformity to our Terms and Conditions set out before them. All users must acknowledge and agree to any information or pictures displayed to them via a VC’s profile, does not relate to an actual person but have been used for the sole entertainment of the user. Please note that any Virtual Cupid profiles do not portray a real person. You understand, acknowledge, and agree that any involvement or communication with our VC shall be monitored to administrate conformity to our Terms, Conditions and laws. We also reserve the right to utilize VC’S within the site(s) services at present and in the future.
Additionally you understand, acknowledge, and agree that, the VC may contact both free and paid users via text bases communication either within the site and/or via email notifications for sole function of increasing the member’s activity in the said sites services and to monitor the members’ compliance to our Terms and Conditions.
Our Virtual Cupid profiles actively monitor the content and material added to the site and surrounding profiles. Any suspicious accounts that may put our members at risk will be removed without hesitation to help provide the best and safest service possible.
Please note that all communications between members and our VC are identified with our VC logo. If upon receivership of a text based communication from a VC, it will be displayed to the member, via the VC logo. If a member responds to, or initiates any communications or interactions with our VC they fully understand, acknowledge, and agree that any response or exchange between the VC and the member is solely for the members’ entertainment, and will not result in an physical meeting between the VC and the member but is to mediate the member compliance to our terms and conditions as well as stimulating the members activity through the said site and it services. Similarly, the member appreciates and understands that any communications from the VC may be sent to multiple users at the same or similar time(s). Additionally the member understands that they are not guaranteed a response or interaction with any of our VC, nor are they with any other site user. If you have any queries or concerns about the deployment of our Virtual Cupid Service please contact our customer service department.
November 13th, 2011 at 6:04 pm
I also was taken by the rudefinder scam. I feel silly for falling for this trick. I will now set to getting my money back. Thank you all for your honesty men.
November 18th, 2011 at 2:24 pm
I have set up JS LOIC in a web page so that all who have been scammed by rudefinder.com can send a DDoS attack from any web browser.
Goto: http://killrudefinderdotcom.blogspot.com
December 5th, 2011 at 11:38 am
The site refuses to refund even after repeated attempts. They can’t/won’t even give profiles in my area. Every one of the profiles that I have looked at are from UK or europe based on the profiles favorite hangouts are based in either UK or Europe. Nothing in Western NY. When I was contacted it was to him me up for webcaming on another site. Just a freaking rip off.
December 18th, 2011 at 9:56 pm
I have been a free member on Rude Finder for a few days. I became suspicious when 10 gorgeous women from a very small town not far from me started messaging me. My supsicions were aroused even further when I responded to an ad on craigslist and was directed to join justhookup, which is really rudefinder, and told that I needed to set up an account so that I could see the persons profile which didn’t exist. I was thinking about joining anyway but after reading all of this information I definitely will not. Thanks.
December 18th, 2011 at 9:59 pm
Forgot to mention that any real dating sight would not let you copy or download pictures. I have several pictures that I have downloaded from rudefider for women that I never even interacted with.
December 26th, 2011 at 9:05 am
so how would they get busted? or wat is the consequenses? is that even legal? i wated 10 buck then they said didnt go through blah blah blah, dnt care bout the money and would hate to c someone that does care get ripped off. is there anything to do to shut em down?
December 26th, 2011 at 9:05 am
wasted…..oops
December 27th, 2011 at 11:56 pm
man im really glad i came here. just closed my account after i went through all the comments. here i thought i was the only one having these problems. but u guys r 100% right. if a girl isn’t trying to get me to give her a vote on some website, then she falls off the planet after saying something to me. a girl could live within 5 miles from me, tell me she wants to meet up, then completely disappear.
January 19th, 2012 at 9:02 pm
This site needs to be written up and sworn to in a complaint to your state attorney general consumer affairs office. Also the Federal Trade Commission and the FCC, I would hit them all.
The state has jurisdiction sense in Texas we have the Long Arm statue which takes possession when an entity is doing business with in the state.On the federal level, it is covered in the Interstate commerce laws.
Even report it to the BBB in your area, there worth;less sense they are afraid of being sued if they report anything negative, still it optional!
January 21st, 2012 at 11:41 am
I have used this piece of rubbish website and most of the girls on there are fakes.They either ask you a story about their parents getting killed in a car crash or something which is not a very nice way to start and after a while they ask you for money.I have a girlfriend now as i went to school with her it makes it so much better i have come off all these dating sites now as they are a piece of s–t.Also there are a lot of girls on there who wants you to join their cam sites which i find rather boring.
January 22nd, 2012 at 3:46 pm
ive used this site for a month, complete scam. nothing else could be said of it. same goes for slavedate, shagaholick.com, xxx.com, mature dating.com. adult cafe.com. etc etc. most are swamped with fake people trying to scam you. even adult friend finder is full of people who appear and are gone with in hours. stick to the pup and club. the naughty dateing sites are just that.
February 4th, 2012 at 1:29 pm
Yes, rude finder is a scam. I seen the same profile with 2 different locations. they automatically renew ur membership too if you dont cancel. you dont have the option to renew, you must cancel or you’ll be charged. this is the third scam site, be naughty is another scam site.
February 4th, 2012 at 1:47 pm
trying to find a ligitimate dateing site is like trying to find a needle in a haystack. I been ripped by true even.
February 22nd, 2012 at 9:10 am
Rudefinder is a scam.
I sadly joined up only to find that every single person on rudefinder is in fact just a computer automated bod.
Noone actually exists on there.
Look for the little (V) icon next to each profile – this stands for virtual cupid and apparantly is meant to add a small amount of excitement to your profile as virtual women get in touch – bollox
What a complete scam.
Don’t go near this scam – you’ll just be wasting your money – I am currently trying to get my membership money back – fat chance of seeing that again – but please, please – don’t join up.